Wednesday, 2 November 2016

Cabbage steak

Hello everyone,

So I'm sitting here waiting for my little loves to fall asleep and I was thinking about what I could write about since I haven't written in a while. It dawned on me that I never shared one of my favorite snack/meal that I love to make. Cabbage steak.

This is something I normally make when I'm alone because I like it so much I don't want to share and because everyone in this house doesn't want to eat because well it's cabbage.

I know, I know, eww cabbage. That's what I used to think too, until I got some in my produce box. I got so much I didn't know what to do with it. So I looked on Pinterest and found a recipe. Now, I totally forgot to check where I got this from, I wasn't thinking of posting others recipes from Pinterest at the time like I do now. So I'll give you the recipe I have no picture of the cooking part but hopefully I'll add some later.

Oven roasted anything is good in fact I love oven roasted everything: tomatoes, radishes (that one surprised me because I hate raw radishes), beets, carrots you nave I've roasted it or would roast it. I find that roasting veggies in the oven takes out the natural sweetness in vegetables.

The number of people this recipe feeds really depends on how much people eat and how big the cabbage is.

Instruction

Preheat oven to 400 Fahrenheit.

Start by cutting the cabbage in half.

At the bottom of each halves you will see what is basically the cabbage stem. Now you can remove this now or leave it and cut around it later.

Cut each half in about 1 inch steaks ( 1 small to medium cabbage should give you about 4-6 slices)

Line a baking sheet with foil (saves on the mess)

Rub an oil of your choice ( I like using olive or avocado oil) on each side of the cabbage and season with herbs of your choosing. I normally just use garlic.

Put in oven for about 30 minutes flipping half way through. Cabbage should be starting to brown but not completely.

Pull out of oven and enjoy.

I eat mine with a bit of Dijon mustard yum.


I ended up quartering this one because it was falling apart.

Saturday, 18 June 2016

Red pepper soup (vegan) and how to roast peppers

So a while back I had roasted a bunch of red peppers and they'd been sitting in my freezer long enough. I decided to use them and make more to replace the ones I used.
I wanted to make something that was just as good to eat cold or hot and that's how I came up with this recipe. I hope you enjoy it as much as my family did.

Ingredients
1 onion (diced)
1tbsp olive oil
4 carrots
2 cups of oven roasted red peppers (about 6 peppers)
4cups (900ml) of vegetable broth
4 bay leaves
1tbsp dried thyme 
1/2 cup non dairy milk

Heat your onion and oil together in a pot for a few minutes until your onion becomes almost transparent.

Add all remaining ingredients. Bring to a boil then simmer until carrots are soft.

Take out the bay leaves.

Put in blender with non dairy milk and pulse or blend till no more chunks remain. 

You can then add a touch of style with basil leaves or oil on top.

Pour in a bowl (or a glass like my youngest) and enjoy.






How to roast peppers (of any kind I normally do 6 at a time)

Preheat oven to 450f

Line a sheet with aluminum foil ( I used a cookie sheet).

Wash peppers and rub oil all over them ( I used olive oil).

Put on sheet and then in oven.

Turn every 10-15 minutes until all sides are partly black.

Once they are done take them out of the oven place them in a bowl and cover them with Saran wrap for about 20 minutes.

Take the peel off and remove the stem and seeds.

VoilĂ , you are now done roasting your pepppers. You can freeze them or put them in the fridge with a bit of oil for a few days.





Life lately

Hello everyone,

I know I've been gone and I'm sorry the hustle and bustle of life has left me a little tired lately but here's what's been going on.

In March I adopted a beautiful pug/terrier mix. I didn't have any information on her besides she was two, a female and if no one took her in she would be euthanized so I took her in. I took her in the week that my boys were at their dad's . She was nervous of around people and in one week we got her accustomed to people by bringing her everywhere with us. She met the boys and we were really surprised, she loved them she's a kid magnet and loves it. We've got her vaccinated, and bought her everything she needed including sunglasses/goggles and a life jacket. She's been four-wheeling, and canoeing and my partner brings her fishing all the time. She is my little shadow and the boys love her. We've found out that she hasn't been spayed but that will be happening in July.

It's been busy for the rest of us too. We've been having fun with the dog plus I've been busy with the rest of the boys. I've went canoeing several times with my partner and four-wheeling. My oldest had his first birthday party which turned more into a play a date since only one of his friends came over but we had fun. I'm also planning a small family get together for my youngest son's birthday. 

I've also been trying several new recipes if you follow me on Instagram you will see a few of them which I'm going to post on my blog soon as well.

That's all for now folks.

Me







Sunday, 1 May 2016

Buffalo Cauliflower "wings"


I love wings, I mean really who doesn't. This was one of my partner's and I favorite meal, so when I decided to go plant based I had to figure out how to substitute this delicious meal for a meat free version. 

I took to Pinterest and found the recipe that I used. Original recipe here from hot for food. They also have recipes for different flavors. 

I doubled the recipe and added Cayenne pepper to the batter mix to add a bit of zing I found that it also made flavoring the "wings" unnecessary.

This recipe can serve 4-8 people.

Ingredients

2 heads of cauliflower

Batter:
2 cups flour
4 tsp onion powder
4 tsp garlic powder
2 tsp cumin
2 tsp paprika
1 tsp Cayenne 
1 cup unsweetened non-dairy milk (I use silk almond or cashew)
2 cups of water.

Sauce:
1 1/2 cups BBQ sauce
1 cup hot sauce

Preheat oven to 450f.

Cut cauliflower into pieces (about the size of actual wings).

In a bowl stir all the dry ingredients together. Then slowly mix in the milk and water. ( until batter is still thick enough to stick to the cauliflower)

Dip cauliflower in batter. Put on parchment paper lined baking sheet.

Put in oven for 25 minutes or until they start to brown. Flip half way through.

While waiting mix. BBQ sauce and hot sauce together.

Once out of the oven coat with sauce and our in the oven for another 25 minutes.


Take out of oven, let cool for 5 minutes and dig in.










Thursday, 3 March 2016

Huggies Pull-ups ( fade away designs)


Underwear like design 1/1 stars

 I like that these are a mix of underwear and diaper together. It allows my son to take them off and put them back on like underwear but if we are rushed, because he realized too late he needed to go to the bathroom the side just Velcro's off.


Designs 1/1

I liked that the designs were from popular characters that my son love and that I think are still pretty popular for boys.

Fade away pattern 1/1

Ok this is the iffy part with me. Yes, the designs have specific areas where the pictures fade but unless my son actuals sees them fading. If your child can learn by understanding that you want these pictures to stay on all the time then great it should work for you.

Protection 2/2 stars

I like the way these Pull-ups have protection for both boys and girls. I have a boy and the protection on these things are awesome. I haven't had one mess with these. No poop or pee has went through these.


Last opinion I think the cool and learn would be better for my son but despite that I think these are a great helping tool to start off potty training.


I received this product for free from Influenster, for testing purposes.


Monday, 18 January 2016

Adult Review- Cumfy hogtie


Price- Ranges from 40$ to 76$ I'm sure you might find it for cheaper or higher prices if you look harder but this is an ideal of the prices that I've found. We bought ours at between us lovers boutique in Sudbury.

I was really debating about posting a review about sexual items on my blog but I told myself why not. I've done the review on Bj blast so I figured why not keep doing it on a few other items that I've tried out with my partner.



Today I'm going to talk about the Cumfy hogtie restraint. When my partner and I saw this product in the store we just looked at each other and smiled like two school kids that just scored candy. We've done the ropes and the fancy knots but sometimes having something simpler to do the restraining is more convenient at times.

What I like about this product.

The cuffs have a nice padding in the inside almost like fleece. I like that because your wrist can be somewhat moveable in them and they don't cut or hurt with a bit of struggling. It is also adjustable with a few wholes to adjust the sizes. I liked that there was the four ring center which allowed a good way of attaching and positioning your partner in different positions. I also like the ease it takes to set up.


What I didn't like.

If you look closely on the picture just below the paragraph you will see the center piece where your cuffs attach. On the center piece there is clips that you well clip onto the cuffs. These broke extremely easily. They either bent or broke right off which will made this purchase a downer. Other reviews online have also stated having the same problems as we have so it's not just me. 

 Two different sized cuffs one for the wrist one for ankles.

I wouldn't recommend this product to anyone. My partner and I still use the cuffs as it's sometimes still easier and comfier then rope directly on the skin. The only reason why I'm but recommending this product is because of the links that broke. If they can solve that issue then this product would be great for both beginners and experienced people.


Friday, 20 November 2015

COVERGIRL Supersizer Mascara review

COVERGIRL SUPERSIZER Mascara Review




This is the Cover girl super sizer.
I got to try this product through bzzagent and like most products I've tried I really enjoyed it.

Packaging 1/1 stars

Now, I realize that for some of you the exterior looks might not be important but it is for me. I love the color of the tube and how bright it is. It makes it easier to find in my makeup bag and the colour just makes happy.

Brush handling 1/1 stars

I like the brush and I find it works well. When you receive products from bzzagent they often come with little video's on how to use them. So I watched this one. It might sound funny to some of you but that little twirl up thing she does in this video I had trouble doing, but I got with practice.

Staying power 1/1

This product is great. It stays on all day. Even through heat and sweat but it is easily removed. I don't think it would stand if you are in an area where there is a lot of water such as crying or in the rain though, because it comes off easily without soap.

Does it work? 2/2

What I like about this mascara is the you can make your lashes long and looking natural like in the video or have a bolder effect like the picture below that I took. I found that it wasn't clumpy at all and I don't have to go over it a bunch of times to get the look I want.








Picture of the mascara from:
http://m.covergirl.com/beauty-products/eye-makeup/mascara/super-sizer-mascara

Sunday, 8 November 2015

October 2015

Hello muffins,

So I haven't completely lost my mind in October. I've had a few rough parenting weeks but I've found myself getting calmer and realizing that I really just need to breathe and realize a few things.

My boys have definitely been challenging this month but that's OK. I did lose my cool a few times and I'm not ashamed of admitting it. Now, by losing my cool I don't mean I went Rambo and destroyed my house but I did yell. In the middle of my yelling I realized that what I was doing was wrong although it does happen. I then took the time to apologize to my youngest ( he'd been waking up all week at 2 and falling asleep 30 minutes before wake up time, I was exhausted) and gave myself an adult time out. That's right, I treated myself like I would treat my child if he had a tantrum and I found myself so much calmer. I think as parents sometimes we get so frustrated because we just feel like we need time to breathe and sometimes we don't get that. And when we feel that way we just get lost in frustration, forgetting that our children (especially the younger ones) can't quiet communicate the way we want them to. They are learning about feelings and how to respond and let's just say when I caught myself acting on this absurd kind of fit I realized that I didn't want my child to react that way. I want him to communicate the proper way, to talk and explain how he feels instead of pushing his wants on to others. So for the rest of the week when I started to feel frustrated I just took a step back to observe my situation and then talk to my child the way I would want him to talk to me. I want my children to learn that it's OK to be frustrated and be emotional but there is a good and a bad way.  Inthe weeks that I had them with me I noticed that the calmer I was the better the children were and not only did they communicate better with me but with themselves too. I also found that I was better at analyzing my feelings and that most of the time my frustrations were due to a communication break down and that asking questions to my children and trying to understand them by asking questions made my life a whole lot calmer and the children's too.

As it comes to my vegan diet it's been hard. I don't eat anything that is non vegan in my house and at work since I pack my lunches except chocolate and candy, I won't lie that's been hard) but at restaurants and at families houses I'm a complete failure. I see meat and I want it which I can generally refrain myself but most places so far don't really offer vegan options so I do I have to work on that.

Halloween costumes turned out pretty good.  The boys costumes are a bit big but that's OK. Collecting candy with them, my hunny and my best friend C was great.




This was the outcomes of our costumes.

When it comes to my vegan repertoire of cooking I didn't really make anything to impressive. I have fallen in love with Chana Masala which is an Indian dish typically made with some milk but I was able to take the milk out and substitute it with coconut milk or almond milk. I also made a vegan version of coleslaw which turned out to be delicious. No recipe but if II get the ingredients again I will mark the ingredients and give you the recipe.


I got to go to bulk barn this weekend which was loaded full of nuts and products that I don't normally buy here where I live because I can either not find it or it's to expensive. I know I have to watch the ingredients even in the list as some of them contain milk for some reason. With that said I did find some good ingredients that will hopefully allow me to make some more great dishes to enjoy as a vegan.

I am also hoping to put a few reviews up on the blog. One about a product I've received through bzzagent and one will be an adult review.

Love

Me

Wednesday, 7 October 2015

September 2015

Hello muffins,

I know I'm a bit behind in posting how I did in September I've just had a really hectic month.

My oldest started school. I can't believe how fast time goes it's crazy. I swear I was just changing him diapers and bottle feeding him yesterday. Now, he's just a big ball of happiness, always eager to help and play.

Along with school both boys have started at a new day care that comes with new rules and it's a bit hard to get used to it. The new rules make things a bit harder between my ex and I when it comes to children's medication but I am getting on my way to making everything easier.

I also had a lovely wedding to attend I was a bridesmaid. It was fun and cold and I am very happy I got to attend such an event.

My goals for September were as follows:
Get some pickling and jam done.
Complete the budget from August receipts.
Finish organizing the house ( my room and kids toys
Learn to hem pants
Make one vegetarian "dish" a week.

So how did I do pretty good I have to say.

I didn't make jam but I did make some Cajun picked carrots and beans. I love the taste of the carrots but not so much the beans. Since I don't like the beans so much I've giving almost all my jars away.

I've also learned how to make cooler wine. My hunny and I have made a batch of black cherry wine and one wild berry. We also have another lime flavored one that needs bottling this up coming weekend. This month if finances allows we want to make an actual red wine to use for cooking and special events.

I did a budget with August receipts but August was such a weird month of spending which I normally don't do that my budget just didn't work. I did however just repaid my credit off this month ( October) and hopefully I can keep it that way.

I'm hoping that come January I can make another budget that's accurate that will include: savings for holidays, presents, insurances and just regular savings.

When it came down to organizing my house all that was as half success. The kids toys were sorted, while the rest of my house just got worse. Right now I feel a little crazy and since cleaning and organizing will get done.

Learn to hem pants. Haha, that was an experience. I got a sewing machine and I've never used one. By watching a few videos on YouTube I got the basics but let's just say I still have a lot to learn. I managed to break only one needle which I think is a win. :)

The last thing on my list was to make one vegetarian meal a week. Well I've started a journey to veganism so all of my own meals are meatless ( I do eat meat and animal by products such as cheese and eggs when I go out for supper but I am trying to stop that too.)


This is one of my favorite lunches a quinoa salad inspired by a recipe in the book oh she glows.

Goals for the month of October:

Make Halloween costumes
Continue growing my cooking repertoire for vegan food
Try not to lose my mind ;)

Any ways I'll have to stop this here my battery is at 2%. :s

Have a good month my loves

P




Sunday, 6 September 2015

Zuchinni fritters


As some of you know this year I joined an organic produce program delivered by Trussler's Pantry. Every week I receive a bin full of fresh, organic, locally grown produce. In the latest bins I've received a lot of zucchinis, and didn't know what to do with them all. 

I also went to the library and picked up "The Vegetarian Student Cookbook: great grub fit the hungry and broke" by Ryland, Peter and Small. It's in this book that I have found the zuchinni fritters recipe.  I looked at it for inspiration and made my own version. I also highly recommend the book, there is a lot of yummy recipes in this book.

Ingredients
2 zucchinis (I used 1 green and 1 yellow)
3 green onions
2 tsp garlic 
1/2 tsp vegetable seasoning and  dill
5 tbs of flour
Olive oil or coconut oil ( I prefer coconut oil but it's your choice)
1 cup cheese of your choice ( I used cheddar)

Grate zuchinni. Put in a strainer and let sit to remove excess water.

Put oven on broil.

In a skillet put a bit of oil, the garlic and green onions and cook until tender. Pull off heat let cool.

Finish staining excess water from zuchinni by pressing it in your hands put into a bowl ( you can add 2 eggs if you want this will help hold your zuchinni patties together and help them brown). Add seasoning and dill and onion mixture into the bowl as well as the flour. Mix together.

Put empty skillet back on the stove at medium heat ( I use the same one that oII cooked the onions in to save on dishes), add a bit of oil. Make patties with the zuchinni mixture and put in the skillet.

Cook until browned, take out of skillet and put on a baking sheet. Add cheese on top of the cooked patties. Put into oven until cheese is browned.

Take out and eat. Yum.






Saturday, 5 September 2015

Potatoe chicken casserole

 I was browsing Pinterest the other night when I fell upon this recipe. I took a look at the ingredients and well I had them all. I also had ingredients that I thought would be awesome if I added then to the recipe.

I liked this recipe for two reasons:
1) It looked fairly simple to make.
2) My partner K isn't fond of chicken and I wanted a recipe that didn't just make the chicken a slab of meat but made integrate into to meal.

The ingredients listed are what I used but the quantities are approximations. Those that don't have quantities are because you can put as much or as little as you want.


Ingredients
1-2 lbs potatoes
1kohlrabi 
1 medium onion
Garlic
Olive oil
Greek or Italian seasoning
4 boneless, skinless chicken breast
3 cups of cheese ( cheddar, marble, mozzarella, wte you like)


Preheat oven at 425 f

If you use large potatoes cut them into pieces of you use gem potatoes just leave them as they are. Peel the kohlrabi and cut into pieces do the same with the onion.

Put in an oven safe baking dish. Sprinkle with as much seasoning as you would like ( I used about 1/4 cup) and add the garlic too ( I used about 2tsp).  Drizzle some olive oil over it all and mix ingredients to coat.

Put in oven for 20 minutes. 

Pull out the dish from the oven and add the chicken ( you can cube it before hand but I just left it whole). Put the dish back into the oven for approximately 20 minutes or until chicken is cooked through.

Once chicken is cooked take the dishes out of the oven ( if the chicken isn't cut up you can take the time to do it now and mix it into the potatoes and kohlrabi). Sprinkle cheese over it all place back into oven until cheese is melted.

Take out of the oven and serve.



This fed me, my partner ( why had to helpings), and my two boys ( 2-4 yrs). We also had plenty of left overs for the next day.





Wednesday, 2 September 2015

Month of August

Hello Jelly beans,

As you all know I set goals out to accomplish this month and I wanted to update you on how everything has been going.

A quick recap of my goals:
Finish organizing the new house
Get back into an exercise routine ( I will be taking pictures and measurements)
30 day you challenge ( taking 1 hour a day to be with just myself no one else with no electronics including music)
30 day no-POO challenge ( that's right no shampooing for 30 days)
Making my own toothpaste ( coconut oil, mint oil, baking powder)

And here is how everything is going. I decided to set myself monthly goals in hopes that it will help me keep on track and it did and didn't.

Organizing the house is a work in progress. I have finally hung up the pictures I wanted on the wall.  My partner K has started organizing the basement for me ( and no we don't live together yet), he even supplied some shelves to help with the organization process. There's still a lot to do down there but it's getting there. I still have to go through the kids toys and find a place for the last few items in a box ( a lot of items actually)

The 30 day you challenge which consist of taking an hour to yourself to do what you want to do hasn't been going as well. You aren't supposed to nap well I fell asleep reading several times and didn't give myself any alone time other nights. What I have done though is take more time to myself even if it's not every day. I probably should've used that time to work out ( note that was a goal and it didn't happen) but instead I took time to read ( even though I feel asleep) and I also took a few relaxing baths which I haven't done in a long time. I also started doing things without the television or music on and without my phone. I just do things in silence which is amazing. Between kids and work my life is noisy, and sometimes all the noise stops me from being able to think, it clogs my mind and that's typically when I start getting a shorter fuse. I have found that doing dishes and food prep without any of those distractions has helped me relax more because I can actually listen and be aware of my own thoughts and feelings. It lets me analyze myself and my actions and majes me see how I could've tackled a situation differently.

30 day s of no-Poo ( shampoo that is). I made it to day 27 with no shampoo. It was surprising how my hate didn't get as oily as I thought it would our feel dirty and itchy. I washed it after 27 days because my hair got wet in a hot tub and baking soda didn't help get rid of the icky feeling my hair gets after being in chlorine. Otherwise my experience was fun.

I made my own toothpaste with coconut oil, salt, peppermint oil, banking powder. I've made it because of all the chemicals in toothpaste. With that said I still use store bought toothpaste once a week and use a store bought mouthwash and floss.

Other things that happened.

My oldest H is starting school this week which is exciting.  B ( my ex), his mother and I will be bringing him to school for his first day together. I am glad that he invited to come along so I can see my son off to his first day of school.

I'm also in the process of buying a sewing machine. I am spending a bit if money on it. The store in town here has one for 180$ used but I decided to go with the same model that is currently on sale for only 20$ more and it will be delivered free of charge. It will save me a ton of money on pant hemming. Since I have to get all my pants hemmed it will save me money in the long run.


The goals for September.

Get some pickling and jam done.
Complete the budget from August receipts.
Finish organizing the house ( my room and kids toys
Learn to hem pants
Make one vegetarian "dish" a week.

Until next time loves.

Saturday, 1 August 2015

Month of July

Hello muffins,

So July is almost done and I'd thought I'd give you guys an update. I won't lie and say that it was perfect because it wasn't and well I hold honesty high up there in what's makes a good person. We also all have our failures and I think that it's OK to say hey I wasn't perfect but I tried.

I did three weeks of fitness blender WO plan that I bought. It is great and low impact but for some reason or another I didn't feel motivated to do anything.

I was supposed to check in with my spending which was also a bust but I did keep must of my receipts. This month I found a box that will be perfect to keep all my receipts to keep track of my spending. I did spend a little extra today. I went out of town and bought a few things I needed and didn't need but I don't get out of town often so I took advantage of this. I need to remember to add a spending allowance in my budget.

This month goals are to :
Finish organizing the new house
Get back into an exercise routine ( I will be taking pictures and measurements)
30 day you challenge ( taking 1 hour a day to be with just myself no one else with no electronics including music)
30 day no-POO challenge ( that's right no shampooing for 30 days)
Making my own toothpaste ( coconut oil, mint oil, baking powder)

I am looking forward to all these challenges. I'm also looking forward to organizing the house. Things are still a little all over the place and I find that the clutter is making it hard for me to stay motivated because all I'm stressing and focusing on is the clutter.


Other wise I'm hoping to make August a better month then July was.

Love

Me ;)

Saturday, 11 July 2015

Crock pot Yogurt


I always wanted to make most of my food. Now that I have moved into my own place I now have the freedom to do and cook what I want. I've been browsing pinterest and I saw a post about making yogurt. it looked easy enough so I decided to give it a try.

I won't lie though I was afraid of trying to make yogurt leaving milk products in a hot crock pot over night was a little worrisome but I did it anyways. My yogurt came out pretty tangy and a bit runny but I know if I use a cheese cloth I can strain it and make it thicker.

I am going to use this yogurt for smoothies. I don't eat a lot of yogurt in general so I don't spend a lot of money on it but I'm glad to know that when I need some i can now makenit for cheaper.

I did a quick break down of what making this yogurt cost. The prices are in Canadian dollars and the cost is per 100ml. I don't have a huge super store here where I live so I bought the cheapest ingredients I found here. By all means though if you can find cheaper prices please do.  Also the prices I mark beside the ingredients are the cost based on the amount of the products I used and not the cost that I paid for the whole product.

ASTRO yogurt 2% Plain- 1$
Lactantia milk 2%- 5$

This recipe makes about two quarts. I did weigh how much yogurt this made and this time it made 1795 ml of yogurt.
The total cost of ,a king this yogurt for the first time is 33 cents per 100ml.
If you used your now made yogurt for the starter of your next batch it is 27 cents per 100ml. My savings for this recipe was 7 cents per 100ml for the first batch and will be 13 cents cheaper on my second batch.  The yogurt I bought in stores was 40 cents per 100ml.


The recipe I used was this one here by Live Simply.


Would you ever try to make your own yogurt? If you have what tips and tricks do you use?


Sunday, 28 June 2015

The new life

Hello my loves,

I know my postings have been very spaced and I do apologize and Iwant to let you all know why and WHT I am hoping to do with this blog in the next few months.

The last three months of my life has been extremely hectic. If you follow my blog you will know a bit but if you don't here is a recap.

After a 7 year relationship with my now ex-fiancee I finally threw in the towel. We went through many ups and downs in our 7 years together including having two marvelous boys (now 2 and 4). Our relationship had fallen into shambles not by lack of trying (trust me we tried) but I had decided to make the decision that I couldn't live the way we were any more. I was becoming more and more angry at life and with the person I had become. I was no longer a good role model for my children and I didn't want my children to think a relationship is just made of fighting so I left.

I moved into my mother's basement for two months. I shared my room with my two boys which I have every second week ( luckily this was something me and my ex B were able agree on).  I met a new man about. week after I had left B, we we were just supposed to be friends. We had had a long conversation about how we both weren't looking for a relationship. He did get to meet the boys because we'll we were just supposed to be friends. K (I will call himK) left for several days to go see his children and it is in that absence that we made the decision that we would try our hand out at a relationship.

Now this wasn't an easy or typical relationship and finding time
 we could see each other or a place to spend together alone was hard. Him and his father share a bachelor's apartment. His dad only comes down for his one week work rotation and thenkewaves but with that said they work opposite schedules and when K works he is in bed by 9 o'clock the latest. My work schedule is also changing every week unlike jhis which made things a bit harder too.  Living with my mom and having my children with me every second week also made things hard but we made it work.

K knew that I was scared of starting a new relationship. I thought I had failed miserably at my first serious relationship we will call it and it wasn't just me that I was afraid to hurt. I not only had my heart to protect any more but also my boys. He reassured me not by telling me that everything would work out but by just listenning. He took the time to understand what was bothering but WHT was also important to me is that I knew he understood because he is a father himself. I know that a lot of people judged me and will continue too but that's OK because I have learned that I need to live my life despite what others think because what others think isn't l ways what is best for me.

Finally, June came around this was a huge step for me. I moved into a sort of town house that is geared to my  income my rent changes from month to month based on what I made that week. For the first time in my Imoved out on my own with no roo mate or boyfriend literally jut by myself an actual independent woman ( which is a scary thought considering I'm 26 and have two boys).  Here is where we are now.

I know that o wanted to do the 52 weeks money challenge hell I blogged about it and started but unfortunately I had to spend a lot of money when I moved. I bought a new fridge and stove, a washer a used dryer and I bought my  parents old bed. I was lucky enough to have single bed and my brother gave me his old one for ,y boys which meant that My littlest monster was being taken out of the crib and straight into a bed.

I won't lie this month came with a lot of freedom and well at the end of the month when the bills came out I was freaked out I don't think I have been ever so broke in my life and that is scary. That reminded me of why I started thiss blog and now with my life really in shambles and coming together all at once has giving me more motivation to keep up with this blog.

I have just started  new being healthy journey. I am not calling a weight loss journey because it's not what this is about. The journey that am on is for me to become a whole new better life. I want to become more financially independent, healthier for my children both physically and mentally. I want to become a better person especially since I know that I have been more then inconsiderate and mean and just down right not ok with others and I can totally own up to it because no I am not perfect.

I want this blog  to hopefully reach a few of you out there and make everyone realize that there is always room for improvements and that if you fall you just got to shake that dust off and get back on your feet.

July is approaching and for the month of July I will be keeping track of all expenses for the months to make a new budget since my old one is no longer applicable. I will also be keeping track of my health journey with you. I hope that you will follow along.

I have joined fitness blender and have taken a 4 week low impact workout program with them and I am getting back into yoga 2-4 times a week. I am also eating healthier since I am paying for a program that sends me enough non-GMO and pesticide free produce for 3-5 people and I'm eating it all with a bit of help of course but still.

That is the full update and I am hoping to get my new phone soon so I can take the  pictures I need to help you follow me on y
my journey.

love

P

Strawberry rhubarb tart

Strawberry Rhubarb Tart

hello everyone,
I'm writing this from a tablet so I do apologize if it's not the best format. My phone broke and I am currently waiting to get a new one. 

I have been really busy between moving, learning my new role as a single mom and starting a new relationship with new friends and old ones as well as a personal relationship with someone I have been finding it hard to make time for myself. Last week was one of those weeks where I was able to find time for just myself and no one else and in that time I was able to do some baking. 

This year I took part in a program that last 18 weeks and I get fresh non-GMO and free from pesticide straight from farms around this area. My first box came with rhubarb and other then cutting it up and freezing it I decided to try my hand at a king strawberry rhubarb tarts.

I remember my mom making these and oh how good they tasted so I gave it a shot. I made my pie smaller because I knew Iwould probably sit there ND et the whole pie to myself. Making them inot to tart sizes this allows me to share it with friendsand family and keep my portion in check now that Iam once again on the trying to be healthy train. 

Any ways enough babbling here is the recipe. I hope you enjoy it as much s I did.

The crust I used was on this site it is from Ricardo and it is eggless. I to this recipe because my oldest is allergic to eggs and it is so far the best pie crust I have found.  I double this recipe to make approximately 24 tarts. 

THE FILLING

4 cups rhubarb cut into pieces
4 cups of strawberries cut into pieces
1/2 cup of white sugar
2 tablespoons of corn starch

Throw all then ingredients in a pot. turn it on medium heat and let it simmer for about 10-15 minutes or until the rhubarb is tender. 

If your mix is too runny just add a bit more cornstarch until you've reached the consistency you want. 

Once your mix is ready put it in the raw tart crust and cook it in the oven at 425 for 20-25 minutes.

You can then sprinkle confectionery sugar on them or add any other type of topping you'd like.

Thursday, 21 May 2015

Curly Hair Care

Hello lovelies,

Growing up I used to hate my hair. As many of you ladies know brushing and combing probably involved a lot of screaming, yelling and crying for some of you. Me especially, I have curly hair and growing up I hated it. I ended up cutting it super short in grade 4 when I ended up catching head lice and kept it short for a long time because I didn`t have to maintain it. As I grew older I started letting it grow out. I unfortunately didn`t know how to take care of my own hair because I never had too. Since I didn`t know how to my hair grew frizzy, damaged, extremely knotty and was just basically a big hairy mess.

So today  I decided that I would write a few tips on how to take care of your curly hair.

Use a Comb:  Use a pick or wide tooth comb to untangle your hair. Brushes causes the hair to frizz and it also causes damage ( split ends). A wide tooth comb is much easier on curly hair, it also helps keeps the curl in strands. I also limit my combing to every second day I find that my hair gets less frizzy when I do this. Using your fingers in the shower to un-tangle your hair also works wonders.

Condition: Curly hair needs to be conditioned often and washed even less. Washing your hair strips your curls from the much needed natural oils that it needs to stay smooth and frizz free. If you take a shower on a daily basis don`t wash your hair everyday. You can condition it every day and wash it every second day if you absolutely need too. I often go several days without washing my hair. You can also use dry shampoo it absorbs some of the oils but not all and then there is always all those up-dos that work better with dirty hair and that are absolutely cute. There's also new conditioners on the market that have a cleanser in it that removes the dirt from hair and is much more gentler then shampoo.

Use those products:  Think now that you save all that extra money on shampoo you can spend it all on other hair products. Depending on how bad my hair I can use up to 3-4 products on it in one day. The products I do use the most though ( I don`t use a particular brand I normally just buy whtaever is on sale) are leave-in conditioners and smoothing serums. Every now and then I will use hairspray to tame some fly-always. I also suggest trying different products what may work for me might not work for you.

Find a good hairstylist: I find that hair stylist with curly hair themselves are the best stylist to have. They understand how curly works. Different curls act differently when cut.  Also make sure you pick a hairstyle that suits your face. You don`t want to end up looking like a poodle.

Air Dry: Letting your hair dry will help prevent frizz and damage caused by heating instruments. A cotton t-shirt works wonders to take most of the excess water out of your hair. If you must dry it with heat please use a diffuser and use a heat protector product that will help keep your hair safer from heat damage.

Don`t touch: Once you style your hair let it be. Touching it will cause it to frizz.

Be gentle: Don't use hair elastics that are too tight or have to much group as this will cause your hair to break. Also using a satin pillow case can help prevent frizz and damage since it allows your hair to move freely in your pillow case when sleeping.

I have a picture of my curls. Yes they are looking a bit because I've neglected my own rules of curly hair care lately with my busy schedule. Things are settling down and my hair will hopefully be back in full bloom soon :)

Until next time muffins.

Me

Wednesday, 22 April 2015

Money Saving Tips

Hello ya'll,

I have been wanting to re-write the money savings tips again because I thought it would be a great way to remind everyone in 2015 all the things they can do to save a bit of money in today's economy.
I am also rewriting this article so I can remind myself all the things I can do to continue saving money.

I won't lie I work a minimum paying part-time job and if it weren't for my significant other I wouldn't be able to make it on my own. With that said I still have my goal to live debt free for a year and I am hoping that I can start living debt free this year. I am happy to say that I am paying off the rest of my loan this month and then I will have to tackle my small credit card debt.  I decided to put both of my money saving tip articles into one, I also added tips that I have been using this year. So now on to money saving tips.

1) Make a Budget:  Take the time to sit down and look at what your finances really are and how much you can actually spend and on what. Stick to your budget after. When you make a budget make room for entertainment and savings.

I have a small budget but I also keep track of what I make and what I spend. I am sure there is a lot of on-line tools to help you with this but I just use a note book and paper to keep track of my spending. I found this really helps me to see where I can save money and if I bought useless items that month that I could of really went without.   

2) Use IT up: If you are like me and had subscription boxes or applied to free samples odds are you have a lot of opened bottles or foil packets. Use these things up. Why buy a new bottle of shampoo when you have 10 sample or travel sized bottles. Unless you travel a lot is there really a need for you to have all those bottles.

This is a process I have already started. I never realized how many body lotions and body I hand until I cleaned and organized and found countless bottles of them, along with many other products.

3) Use less:  We often use too much of a product when it is not needed. Do you put a big amount of body wash on your loofah, sponge or cloth? Try using less, you might be surprised that you only need the amount the size of a dime to wash yourself with. And don't just use this concept in body products but in cooking ( using less oil or butter in the bottom of the pan) and every other aspects of your life. This will help make your products last a lot longer then they normally would.

I have been doing this since before Christmas and I have noticed that my beauty products and some of my food have lasted a lot longer then before saving me a bit money.

4) Cancel Things:  If you have satellite T.V. cancel it and go for other options like Netflix or Crackle there is a lot of other services out there that are free or cheaper then satellite T.V.. If you have a gym membership that you don't use cancel it. Go through your expenses and find what you can go without or don't use yet spend money on.

I have cancelled all my subscription boxes and an on-line gym membership that I did use for the moment until my finances are in order.

5) Stop using satellite television:  This one I have done a long time ago. My husband and I moved and thought of reconnecting the dish but then we thought why. Look at how much you pay for your television. Look at the thousands of of channels that are there and how much do you actually watch. You want television go with basic cable or opt in for netflix 10$ a month with countless shows to watch. We did this and have probably saved a lot of money.  ( 90-160$ a month to 10$ a month think about it).

This saved my husband and I  over 80$ a month.

6) Cancel the phone: If you have a home phone and a cell phone cancel one. Do you really need both phones. I can see if you own your own business sure but if not pick one a cancel the other. Also get the lowest plan you can live with. I pay 45$ fo r a month for mine and get a bit of data and that's all I need).

 I cancelled my home phone and just  have my cell phone. This saved me almost 40$ a month.

7) Pay off Debt:  I think this is the hardest but one of the most important. Debt has interest and that takes a lot of money away from you after a few years. If you have multiple debts start by paying off the smallest one. Once it is paid off use that extra cash and put it towards another debt to pay it off faster. If you have  multiple credit cards pay them off and then cancel them. If you have one lower the amount you can spend on it.

I am paying off  the last of my bank loan this month (After 5 years. I have put extra money down on my payments to help me lower the loan faster). After that is paid I will be putting the extra money aside to pay off my credit card ( I have already lowered my limit on my card to prevcent me from spending)

8) Shop sales and discounts:   Check out flyers before you go out shopping. If you happen to see a product discounted because it will expire soon buy it and either use it that day or freeze it. Most of these items are still just as good as fresh ones.

I always try and shop sales or discounted products, this often saves me 20$+ or more on my shopping list.

9) Declutter and Organize:  Living in clutter will prevent you from seeing the things you already own and can use. It will also keep your home tidy and running more effectively.

I did this to my bedroom and wow did I find a lot of things I didn't even know I had. Now, I have less trouble finding things and I feel less overwhelmed and cluttered in my mind as well now that I don't live in a room that looked like a tornado went through it.



10) Have a swap: Swap books, magazines, DVD's and other products and items with your friends this will save you and everyone around you that participates in the swapping of items money. Also look on-line there is plenty of sites that have swapping services, like this one.

11) Make it yourself: Try making your own products like soap , or food like bread. 

I haven't this one yet. Although it is a smart ideal it can be expensive to start off when it comes to building your stock. When I am able too I will be trying this. 



12) Make your own gifts or re-gift; Make your own gift for someone often times these are more cherished then gifts that are bought and it will save you money. 

I made my children's V-day cards this year. Not only did it save me money but it was also a great activity to do with my children. I am planning on doing the same thing for future events and parties. 

13) Shop used: Salvation army, second hand stores. All these often carry name brands ( if you are really into that), and perfectly still usable clothing. Also many of these stores help people in the local area that have less. 

I try to buy used whenever I can and I am not talking just clothes but Tupperware and appliances too.



14) The 30 day rule or 10 second:  See something you want? Wait 30 days, weigh out the option is this something you want or need? Do you have the money to spend on it or could you use it on something else that is of better use to you? If you still want if after 30 days then buy it. The 10 second rule is the same as the 30 day rule. Ask yourself why you are buying and if you really need it.  

I still have a long ways to go with this one especially since I don't live in a town with shopping malls like the big city. Often the purchases I make that are unnecessary are  impulse buys. 

15)Stop Smoking or drinking: If you have an addiction like smoking or drinking try to stop this will save you a lot of money down the road not only by not buying the product but for your health as well ( especially if you live in a country without free health care)

I don't smoke or drink but I had a friend who did. she smoked a pack a day that cost her about 10$ a day, after a week she spent 70$ at the end of the month that makes about 280$ that she now saves. 


16) Short, Cold Showers: Now I am not saying just turn on you cold water and jump in and out of you shower. What I am saying is if you like to take really hot showers start by turning the heat down a bit and cut your shower by short by 5 minutes everyday and continue this until until you find the right temperature for yourself and the right amount of time you need in the shower. Also, if you run the water waiting for it to heat up collect that water with a bucket. After use that water to water your plants or put it in your Brita ( or wte filter system you have at home if you have one).

17) Rain Barrel: Have a rain barrel. There are many ways to make these or even buy one. This will save you money by reusing water to water your plants, especially if there is a water ban.  Most of these are closed up so mosquitoes cannot make their nest in there so that shouldn't be of worry to you.

18) Drink Water ( or more of it):  That is right drink more water. Most of us don't drink a lot of water and I am sure if we started we would see a lot of benefits from it. When I started my weight lost journey I started drinking more water. How does this help with your grocery bill? It will save you money because you are going to drink less pop (soda), juices ( filled with sugar) and it will also help with your food cravings and eating habits ( being dehydrated causes the body to send us signals that we are hungry).

I am working on this. I don't often drink a lot of water but I am slowly drinking more and more each day. I found that I am less hungry and that my skin looks a lot better since I have been doing this. I also suffer less headaches.


19) Use a bottle and a filter: Now what I mean by use a bottle I mean by a re-usable one. Buying already bottled water will be more costly for you then a re-usable one. If your tap water isn't the greatest use a filter.  You can get a jug with a filter or a bottle with a filter. I use a jug from Brita because that is what my husband had when we moved in together. Yes, the filters are a bit costly but you only have to change them every 3-6 months which is still better then going through several cases of water bottles. It is also better for the environment. You can also if you chose to buy glass water bottles ( I use plastic), this is one of the many sites I found that sells them.

I use a plastic water bottle when I am out and I also use a Brita filter for my home. 

20) Have a Pantry:  Find a cupboard or two and put your baking and cooking needs in it. If you see something that you use often on sale buy an extra one or two. Make sure that you only buy what you need and things that you use often. If you don't use it often then just buy it when you need to avoid it from going bad.

I have had a pantry forever, but I always had a lot of things going bad because I never used the products I bought. I have started to actually look at what I have in my pantry to use before I go out and do groceries. I do want to make an inventory eventually with a dry erase board.
21) Make an inventory: Grab a pen and pencil ( or a dry erase board if you prefer) and make a list of what you have in your pantry and how much of it you have. Keeping an inventory will help you not waste anything because you know what you have and won't go and continuously buy products you don't need which can lead to waste and will help you know what you do need to buy.

I am planning on doing this with a dry erase board once I have a bit of money to buy one.

22) Make a weekly meal plan:  Now this is one that I read all the time and yet I can't seem to get my head around it. This is one that I will have to work on extra hard to do this year. It is supposed to be good because you can utilize your coupons and the specials that are on that week to make your meal around and you can use one or more ingredients on your list to make several meals.

I still haven't done this yet but I am hoping to get it done for supper meals in the future. 

23) Make a list:  This one is straight forward when you go shopping make a list of exactly what you need and stick to it. Whether it is for clothes shopping or grocery shopping.

I am doing this although I still have to work on it since I still go off the list once in a while. Since I have started this it has saved me about 20-100$ + on my groceries every two weeks ( My hubby and I take turns) 

24) Eat leftovers: Even if there is only enough  left overs for one person to eat the leftover in your family it's still better then throwing the food out. Think about it you spent 20$ for your supper and you had left overs for a couple meals. Divide that 20$ into the amount of meals you ate and think about how much money you would of thrown out. ( example from this site)

I have always eaten left overs and I will continue to do so. I try to waste as little food as possible.

25) Use what you have:  You go to the store you buy a bunch of pantry staples or food that you can freeze you put it away and then you forget about it. Look through your fridge, freezer and pantry to seewhat kind of meal you can make. Also keeping your pantry and fridge/freezer well organized will save you money in the long by no longer letting food expire or go bad.

I try to do this several times a week. It is amazing what you can do with a can beans that you find in the back of  your pantry.


26) Use those savings:  A) use coupons. B) use the loyalty card, all grocery stores now ( or most of them) have some sort of loyalty program. IC) last but not least, look at the flyers to see what is on sale and use those sales to plan your meals around or to fill up your pantry.

This year I am going to keep all my points till the end of the year to see how much money I am actually saving. I have collected about 90$  worth of points in the last three months ( I did forget to load offers on my card now and then) but still 90$ alone so far and I still have 9 months to go before the end of this year. 

27) Start a garden: . You can grow many herbs, vegetables and fruits indoors. This can save you a lot of money in the long run even if you just do it for the summer.  Also shop the farmers market if there is any in your area odds are the produce will be just as fresh ( or fresher) and cheaper then what you get in store.

I don't have room in my home to start a herb garden but if I did I would. My mother and I are hoping to teach my oldest son how to garden this year which will save us a bit of money of vegetables if we are successful. 


28) Eat then shop: Shopping on an empty stomach will make you buy more of the things you don't need. Eat before you go shopping or keep a snack with you if you can't eat a meal before shopping.

I now practice this and it helps me not to over buy products. I don't know how this works but it does.

29) Bulk buys: If you can join a bulk store like Costco do. It does cost a little bit for a membership but you will save more then what you pay in membership. Also stick with the items you will use most often and that you know won't go to waste. Also, buy products that are on sale in bulk again only if you use them though.

I don't live close to any stores like Costco but when my sister visits she often brings me a bag of toilet paper that is only 20$ that last me for several months and is a cheaper buy then buying the same amount of rolls at the grocery store.

30) Buy Generic: When you go to the grocery store try buying generic brands instead of name brands. Often time the generic brands are just as good as the brand name.  Also check out the top and bottom shelves because often times that is where you will find the cheaper options. Companies actually pay to have there products placed in the sight of the shopper.

I have and still try to buy cheaper generic brands on most items. I won't lie though some products you just need to buy  brand names for as the cheaper options aren't as good. 

31) Add to your meal: Add vegetables or fruit ( depending on you are making) to your meals.This will add bulk to your meal and help stretch a little further ( think add veggies to taco meat or hamburger helper). It will also add more nutrients to your food and make you healthier.

I do this on a regular basis. I am trying to get my hubby to follow in my foot steps but that is hard. 

32) Stop being lazy:  Stop buying pre-packaged, pre-wash and pre-cut foods. Sure these can save you a lot of time but they also charge more for it. Do your groceries and decide a time when you will be doing your own food preparations. It is more time consuming but you can make it family time and have them help by washing and packing the food away.

Although I still buy some pre-cut items every now and then I mostly buy food that I have to prepare myself. I find that this also cuts out some processed foods from my diet. 


33) Portion Control: Many of us eat more then what we actually need which leaves us bloated and tired. A tip to this start with smaller portions on your plate and take the time to actually eat. It can take up to 30 minutes for your brain to catch the signals that your belly is sending. If you are still hungry after eat a little bit more. It is better to go for seconds then it is to over eat or throw away food because you put to much on your plate.

I have done this for a while now. I was amazed at the beginning how full I could be on little food. My husband is now also getting better at portioning food on my plate when I am not home. This has also helped me lose a few a pounds. 

34) Cut out on going out:  Instead of going to a restaurant with friends invite them over for a night and make it a pot luck then it will save everyone money. Rent a movie instead of going to the cinema. 

My hubby and I used to go out several times a month now we only go out on special occasions this has saved us 100$+ a month. 

35) "Brown Bag it":  Make your lunch. If you do not go home for lunch. Make it the night before and then bring it to work instead of buying it at work.  This can save you loads of money.

When I did a spending freeze I realized that I spent a lot of money at work on food that I could make myself ( i.e. Salads, protein lunches).

36) Cook in bulk:  Making spaghetti sauce? Make a big batch of it instead of a tiny one. This way you can buy larger cans and bags of ingredients you need and it will save you money. Plus, you will have something that you can just pull out of the freezer on days you don't want to cook.

I often do this. Sometimes I even split the cost with someone so we both save money and have plenty of  "freezer" food. 

37) Go Paperless:  If you can opt for paperless bills try it some company`s like Rogers actually charge you 2$ a month for each paper bill they send you.


This is it for my list right now I may add some later if so I will let you all know through the Facebook page.


Happy saving

ME